Optional Command of Jesus?
Commandments of Jesus -part 1

Optional Command?
Most Christians believe Jesus is God, and they ought to obey what Jesus has commanded. However, when Christians’ perspective is objectively analyzed along with their daily lives, it is easy to find that many, if not most, Christians’ beliefs about Jesus and what Jesus has said do not correlate with their daily lives.
An easy example of this point appears in the gospels of Matthew and Luke, where both authors record the same event from different viewpoints. In Matthew 6 and Luke 12, Jesus tells his disciples about life's priorities.
25 Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment?
Matthew 6:25
22 And he said unto his disciples, Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat; neither for the body, what ye shall put on.
Luke 12:22
When Jesus told his disciples to take no thought for your life, what to eat, or to drink, or for clothes, he was talking about specific aspects of priorities in disciples’ lives. During Jesus' time, people worked daily to put food on the table for their families. If you did not work, then that day, the entire family went to sleep without eating. Also, people's outer clothes were their bedding, and when they spent nights outside their home, the outer clothing protected them from harsh weather. By today's standards, their clothes were like home.
What Jesus mentioned was every commoner’s concern, and their primary concern was praying to God about their concerns. However, Jesus tells his disciples not to even think about any of those things, which implies an emphasis on not praying to God about it.
30 Wherefore, if God so clothe the grass of the field, which to day is, and to morrow is cast into the oven, shall he not much more clothe you, O ye of little faith?
Matt 6:30
28 If then God so clothe the grass, which is to day in the field, and to morrow is cast into the oven; how much more will he clothe you, O ye of little faith?
Luke 12:28
Jesus tells them not to worry about daily necessities because God clothes the grass of the field, and they should trust God for their daily needs. People sought God and prayed for their daily necessities, which seems innocent and necessary. However, Jesus was not addressing praying to God for daily necessities; he was addressing trusting God for them and not worrying about physical, earthly needs before the Lord.
Jesus emphasizes the relationship with the Father as the main focus and issue for the disciples, rather than earthly things. Jesus assumes that if you are the Father’s child, you ought not to concern yourself with earthly things: what to eat, drink, or wear. This is because the Father already knows His children's daily needs, and He provides for them before they even ask.
Jesus redirects his disciples' perspective from a transactional God to a relational God. Most went to God to pray and get their prayers answered. However, Jesus reshapes their view from a transactional God to a relational God, and from an unreachable God to a Father who has been taking care of them even when they do not ask for their needs.
If they do not pray to God about their daily needs, God must meet them. This is a trust and relational issue: the petitioner trusts and has a relationship with God, so they do not even need to ask God for specifics of their lives to be answered in a specific way. The petitioner trusts that whatever God provides is exactly what they need.
Matthew records it in detail and compares the audience with the Gentiles (Matt 6:32). At the same time, Luke expands the comparison group to the nations of the world (Luke 12:30). Jesus distinguishes his disciples from followers of worldly standards. He is explicitly saying that those who seek what to eat, to drink, or to be clothed are as if they doubt the Creator, who even clothes the grass in the field that is to be thrown into the fire the next day. This is what the world and those who do not believe in God seek after, and Jesus’ disciples ought not to do what the world and non-believers do.
31 Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed?
32 (For after all these things do the Gentiles seek:) for your heavenly Father knoweth that ye have need of all these things.
Matthew 6:31-32
29 And seek not ye what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink, neither be ye of doubtful mind.
30 For all these things do the nations of the world seek after: and your Father knoweth that ye have need of these things.
Luke 12:29-30
Jesus is instructing his disciples that, instead of praying to God for daily necessities, they should seek the Kingdom of God. Kingdom of God is not of this world nor of the flesh. It is of the spirit, and to inherit the Kingdom of God, disciples must seek spiritual principles.
33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
34 Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof.
Matt 6:33-34
31 But rather seek ye the kingdom of God; and all these things shall be added unto you.
32 Fear not, little flock; for it is your Father's good pleasure to give you the kingdom.
Luke 12:31-32
Most Christians know Matt 6:33 and Luke 12:31: first seek the Kingdom of God and His righteousness. But most Christians do not obey the commands of Jesus that preface it, which are not even to think about what to eat, to drink, or to wear. When Jesus said this, he did not say it so that the disciples would think of it as an option, where the disciple can choose which ones to follow and which ones not to follow. Jesus made it clear that these commands were based on a relationship with the Father, who cares for His children because they are His, and He wants the best for them.
However, when you objectively reflect, most prayers- the majority of our prayers- focus on what to eat, drink, or wear. They focus on fleshly needs and ignore the relationship with God. Most Christians pray specifically to God to instruct God on what is needed, and the underlying presumption is that God does not know better than the person praying about the matter the petitioner is bringing to God. It assumes God does not know better than me about the topic I am praying about, and that it must be answered this specific way because it is best for me.
This underlying assumption is the opposite of what Jesus taught us. If we believe and trust in God as our Father and pray to Him, then the contents of our prayers should not be concerns of the flesh. What to eat, to drink, or to wear are all concerns of the flesh. These concerns became our concerns after the fall of Adam. Because of Adam’s sin, the land was cursed, and mankind was cursed to toil under sweat to eat of the labor of their hands. Before Adam’s fall, their sweat and labor were not for their fleshly consumption. Adam’s labor was for God's Kingdom and righteousness. Adam’s sweat was not for his own benefit, but for advancing God's Kingdom and extending His righteousness into the world.
After the fall, mankind’s labor became vain because it no longer advanced God’s Kingdom or His righteousness. Adam’s labor of sweat was to sustain Adam until Adam’s death. Jesus came to restore the fallen nature of Adam's descendants and to make labor no longer toil for the sake of the flesh, but for the Kingdom of God and His righteousness.
Prayer and petition to God are not about asking God for what we want. They are for seeking the Kingdom of God and His righteousness. God gave us the freedom to pray about what God wants His Kingdom to become through our labor. Jesus came to restore labor from fleshly labor that leads to death to spiritual labor that leads to abundant life.
Jesus tells us that the heathens pray, too, and they use vain repetitions for their labor as the main source of their petition to be heard by a god. However, as a child of God, Jesus taught His disciples not to pray as the heathens do, but to pray the prayer that Jesus taught, which is spiritual. (Matt 6:9-15)
7 But when ye pray, use not vain repetitions, as the heathen do: for they think that they shall be heard for their much speaking.
8 Be not ye therefore like unto them: for your Father knoweth what things ye need of, before ye ask him.
Matt 6:7-8
Many Christians’ prayers to God are what Jesus described as what the heathens prayed to their god. Many Christians fast and pray for their prayers to be answered. Unknowingly, Jesus prohibited this kind of fasting and prayer. Unbelievers believe that God hears their prayers because of their many words and self-sacrifice. Many Christians fast when they want something done on earth. Somehow, this tradition has crept into the church, and many who fast get their prayers answered. When their prayers are answered, they tell others that God answered their prayers after they fasted.
16 Moreover when ye fast, be not, as the hypocrites, of a sad countenance: for they disfigure their faces, that they may appear unto men to fast. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward.
Matt 6:16
However, we must examine prayers and fasting and discern whether they were done according to Scripture or like the heathens, which Jesus forbade. In the book of James, James tells the Church that they do not receive from God what they ask because they ask wrong and ask to consume it in lusts.
2 Ye lust, and have not: ye kill, and desire to have, and cannot obtain: ye fight and war, yet ye have not, because ye ask not.
3 Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts.
James 4:2-3
In 1 Kings 18, we find Elijah battling the 450 prophets of Baal and the 400 prophets of Ashtoreth. When Baal did not answer the 450 Baal prophets’ prayers, they began to cut themselves and inflict pain upon their bodies so that their gods would answer them. However, no one answered, and when Elijah prayed, God answered with fire from heaven, burning everything down.
Just like the Baal and Ashtoreth prophets, many Christians think their sacrifice and fasting twist God’s hand to answer their prayers. Some dedicate special prayer to a specific request; others fast to get God’s attention so their petition can be heard. However, what Jesus has taught is contrary to the popular belief that fasting quickens God’s answers.
This kind of prayer and fasting is similar to what the 450 prophets of Baal and the 400 prophets of Ashtoreth did to get their gods' attention. Contrary to popular belief, Jesus tells his disciples they should not only avoid praying about these things, but also not even consider them in their minds. Jesus tells the disciples that the things of the flesh are not even worth considering; rather, they should seek the Kingdom of God and His righteousness.
Then, the natural succession of question one can ask is, if Christians pray for food, water, and clothing, which are concerns of this world, that Jesus told them not even to consider, then who answers such prayers? Many Christians boast about their prayers being answered: their jobs, family issues, health issues, money issues, and other issues of daily living.
If Jesus said the heavenly Father knows all these things His children need and cares for them, then who answers the prayers Jesus told us not to pray about? Is it reasonable to assume that many Christians pray such prayers because they believe they know better than the Father about certain issues and want a certain outcome, whether the Father wills it or not? That we know better than the Father about an issue we are praying about, want a specific outcome, and pray and fast to convince the Father that our way is better than the Father's?
Then, who answers such prayers?
When Elijah confronted the Israelites to worship God, not idols, and to choose between the two, the Israelites stayed silent. Their silence was an admission that they thought God and idols were the same. They both have priests and prophets; they both have sacrifices; they both have an altar; the Israelites could not distinguish God from Baal, not because God and Baal are the same, but because the Israelites’ understanding and relationship with God were like their relationship with Baal: seeking fleshly needs through their prayers and sacrifices, instead of what God wants.
Could it be possible that many Christians use the names of the Father, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit but pray and have a relationship with them as if they were idols of the world? Perhaps Jesus distinguished between the disciples and the Gentiles because their prayers and relationship with God the Father were like those of the Israelites in the time of Elijah.
We say we pray to God the Father, but the content or procedures we use to pray are ungodly and against Jesus’ commandments on how to pray. Jesus told us not even to consider what to eat, drink, or wear, meaning don’t even think about them, because the Father cares for us; based on this relationship, we ought not to even consider them. Yet, most of our prayers are based on fleshly needs and desires. James tells us we do not receive from the Father because we seek the lusts of the flesh.
Then we can assume that the one who answers our fleshly prayers is not God the Father but the world. When Jesus told his disciples to seek His Kingdom and His righteousness, he showed us how to pray to the Father based on our relationship with Him. However, those who do not pray for the Kingdom of God and His righteousness seek fleshly desires, and God does not answer those prayers. But if those prayers come to pass in the world, then they are not from God, because God does not answer prayers based on lust; they come from the world.
Without discernment, many Christians fall into thinking that they have received an answer from God because they prayed and/or fasted. It is as if the prophets of Baal and Ashtoreth wounded and bled themselves to get their gods' attention. Jesus is telling his disciples not to pray that way, because God the Father is not like an idol or the worldly gods. Jesus is telling his disciples to pray and fast with the understanding that it is based on a relationship with God the Father. The Father God knows and has prepared for every child of His, and His children do not need to seek worldly things but only the things of His Kingdom and His righteousness.
Because our prayer and fasting are based on our relationship with God the Father, we must strengthen and renew that relationship through Jesus Christ’s flesh and blood. As followers of Jesus, we must seek spiritual things rather than the fleshly things of the earth. We must stop praying and fasting for the manifestation of the flesh in our lives, as it is demonic and ungodly, and God does not answer such prayers or fasting.
Jesus’ disciples must seek the things above, which are spiritual, not the things of the earth, which are fleshly. Apostle Paul tells us that he has been crucified with Christ; therefore, he no longer lives. The one that no longer lives is our fleshly self, which seeks after the flesh.
We must discern and refocus our prayers to reflect upon the relationship that we have with the Father through our Lord Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ has paid for our way to the Father through the breaking of his flesh and blood. We must trust God the Father to give us our daily needs as He sees fit and depend on Him for our daily sustenance. That is what Jesus was telling His disciples to pray and to fast about.
As disciples of Jesus, we must honor Jesus’ teachings and not pick and choose which ones to follow and obey and which ones to ignore. We are not the decision-makers in our lives, because we do not decide which of Jesus' commands to follow and which to ignore. We must obey all that Jesus has taught us; otherwise, we become gods ourselves as we decide which ones we follow and obey and which ones we ignore. That was Adam’s fall: taking the Fruit of Knowledge, directly against God’s commandments.
Jesus has given us a second chance to do what Adam failed to do. Through Jesus, we know God's perfect will, and we can obey it all when we give our free will to Jesus’ desires. We do that by discerning God's will and submitting ourselves to it.
2 And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.
Romans 12:2










